There are times when you run into people who are filled with such self hate that they can not stand themselves. They hide behind a mask of self delusion, and in order to keep that fragile mask intact, they embark on a smear campaign against you.
Telling all your mutual friends to not talk to you, to delete you from their lives and to just dog you behind your back.
That’s okay. That has nothing to do with you. That is all their energy, they were never truly your friends if they can so easily turn on you. A true friend doesn’t take sides because the pain between you and your significant other or another best friend is transitory. It won’t last forever… but by ostracizing one friend over the other… that IS forever. When a person does that to you it plainly states that you mean absolutely nothing to me and I really don’t care if you died tomorrow. Yes, its painful to know that there are people in the world like that, but just remember… there are BILLIONS of people on the planet… you don’t need people who don’t care about you in your life… they are a waste of your space… find the ones that matter and move on